Today’s article addresses a serious and growing issue. And that’s the number of adult men who have an “Internet girlfriend” who they’ve never met in real life.
I’ve seen multiple news stories about this phenomenon. I’ve also met numerous women who’ll string five or six guys along this way for extra cash and designer clothes. So today we’ll look at why this trend is gaining popularity, and how to avoid it.
1. Professional Internet Girlfriend (A Fantastic Money Maker)
(Belle Delphine Has Men Paying Her $2,500 A Month On Patreon)
This summer there was a huge story about Belle Delphine, an Instagram model who caters to gamers and anime fans. She makes several million dollars a year, chatting with dudes online and selling jars of her bathwater.
Random horny guys pay thousands of dollars to flirt with her on social media and text her sappy messages (she doesn’t cam or escort).
Likewise, this year saw a number of other stories about guys sending obscene amounts of cash to women they’ve never even met. Why? Because these girls were nice to them online.
And lastly, from personal experience, many hot girls in Asia have a “sponsor” who lives in Europe or Canada and sends thousands of dollars a month. Many of them only see this dude once per year (when he visits for vacation), and some might not even see the guy on an annual basis.
Imagine paying some girl $12,000, and only having sex with her once every two years!
Don’t make this mistake.
2. Easy Solution: Meet Women In Your Own Town
A lot of guys who fall for the Internet girlfriend trap are lonely. And that’s because they don’t socialize enough.
Gamers shoving money to a chick on Instagram make an easy target here, but many of the culprits are actually fairly normal guys. However, many of these dudes fall for a lot of anti Western women rhetoric.
“All the girls where I live are fat, stupid gold diggers. If you want quality women you have to move to Thailand, Yugoslavia, etc” type BS.
While living abroad is more fun and foreign girls are hotter, assuming every chick in your city is some obese money grubbing troglodyte is dangerous. This is how you end up as some E-Girl’s paypig.
Join a foreign dating site if you have actual plans to visit that country. Don’t sign up just to strike up expensive long-distance relationships where you never meet the girl.
Instead, spend some time dating around your own city. Read a book on meeting women.
Go to the gym and buy new clothes to improve your looks.
Activities like these are far more rewarding long-term. And doing them lets you meet actual women, as opposed to nebulous E-Girls.
3. Big Baller Game (Play At Your Own Risk)
Before we go, I do want to mention one last alternative dating option. This is geared towards older guys who don’t care about spending money, and it’s big baller game.
I know a handful of guys in the States who do this. They’ll buy a nice car or expensive watch, join Seeking Arrangement, and use some of their money to hook-up with gold diggers.
This isn’t for everyone, but if you are a man who doesn’t care about spending a little cash to get laid or meet women where you live, using Seeking Arrangement is a viable option. Especially if you already have a higher end lifestyle.
If nothing else, it certainly beats blowing through cash on an imaginary Internet girlfriend who lives 1,000 miles away.