Exclusive: Da Nang Travel Report

October 31, 2016 By Rob

How would you like to live in a tropical beach town with beautiful coasts and gorgeous women?

Well you can. In the Vietnamese city of Da Nang, you’ll enjoy fantastic beaches, low-cost of living, and tons of sexy women.

In this Da Nang travel report, I’ll tell you all about living in one of Asia’s most over-looked and underrated destinations.

Here we go!

Cost Of Living In Da Nang

(Kick Back And Enjoy The View!)

This city is cheap! You can live like a rockstar for under $600 a month. While in Da Nang, I sipped cocktails on the beach, went to huge weekend concerts, and rode my motorbike up and down the coast.

That, plus renting a place right on the ocean, cost me $597 total. $300 for the apartment, $297 for everything else.

The craziest part? I was trying to spend as much a I possibly could!

In Da Nang you can buy a hamburger for $0.50, order a beer for $0.75, and get a tank of gas for $2.

And, even though things are cheap, your standard of living will be great. Da Nang’s a modern beach town, and a huge international tourist destination. It’s like Miami, at 1/10^th the price.

Once you’re here, there’s tons of stuff you can enjoy.

Da Nang Daily Life

(The City Looks Amazing At Night)

If you like swimming, surfing, and spending time outside, Da Nang is the perfect city for you. Between the mountains, ocean, and luscious jungle, you’ll never run out of places to explore.

Plus the city’s million plus population means that there’s plenty to do in town too.

Whether you want to hang out at a fancy coffee shop, visit military museums, or enjoy drinks at the yacht club, there’s something for everyone.

Da Nang is nice because it’s the perfect mixture of big city opportunity and small-town charm. It’s not as busy as Ho Chi Minh, while still offering more than a place like Hoi An. If you’re used to constant hustle, this place is a welcome break.

The city’s laid back pace makes it great for guys who want to live the good life without sacrificing any big city opportunities.

Where To Meet Women In Da Nang

(Tons Of Vietnamese Cuties Come Here To Party)

This town is filled with bars and clubs. Since Da Nang is a huge tourist attraction, there’s stuff going on every night.

It’s super easy to meet women.

You can hit up the local nightlife, scope out honeys at the upscale coffeehouses, or join VietnamCupid. The choice is yours.

While these are all great options, I’d suggest that every man become a member of VietnamCupid. Why? Because it gives you a whole slew of dating options you’d never have experienced otherwise.

Lots of Vietnamese chicks go on vacation to Da Nang. But before they leave, they look for guys on VietnamCupid. This way they get a date (or just have sex) with someone as soon as they arrive.

As a result, having a VietnamCupid account means you’re going to be getting laid over and over again.

Da Nang Travel Report: Closing Thoughts

(Stunning Scenery)

I like it here, and I know you will too.

The city is cheap to live in, has tons of cool activities for you to enjoy, and is a top-notch vacation destination for Vietnamese women who are looking to unwind and let loose.

When you’re ready for beachfront living and a tropical atmosphere, check out Da Nang. You’re going to love it!

How To Setup A Board Game Date

October 4, 2016 By Rob

Many Vietnamese girls can be nervous or awkward on the first date. They’re shy and worried about spending time with you. Why not break the ice by inviting them on a board game date?

This is a simple and fun idea that can get your girl out of her shell in a matter of minutes.

Here’s what you do:

Arranging Your Board Game Date

(Typical Coffeehouse In Vietnam)

If you’ve met a girl off VietnamCupid or through mutual friends, you’ll want to set up a date with her as soon as possible. The best way to do this is to invite her out to a local coffeehouse and then suggest that the two of you visit while playing some board games.

Pick a time that works best for both of you, and make sure each of you knows where to meet. Driving around Ho Chi Minh City by motorbike is crazy enough, there’s no need to complicate things with bad directions.

Once you’ve got your time and place picked out, choose a board game and get really for a good time.

Best Games To Play

(Chinese Chess Set)

When picking your game, it’s important that you choose something simple and that both of you will understand. Don’t bring a copy of Axis & Allies or Risk, unless the girl has played them.

Since most Asian women aren’t too familiar with Western games, I like to select local titles that the girls have grown up playing.

Here are my three “go to” picks:

1. Chinese Chess

This is a game everyone in Vietnam knows how to play. It’s easy to learn (I’ve included a video tutorial below) and lots of fun.

(How To Play Chinese Chess)

You can figure out the basics of this game in about 15 minutes, and it’s a nice way to reduce first date anxiety. Also, girls you play against will be excited that you know this game, since it’s one of their country’s favorite pastimes.

The next time you go on a date, give this game a shot.

2. Connect Four

Here’s a simple Western game that many Vietnamese women love. If you’ve never played the game before, it’s super simple. Two players compete to get four colored disks lined up in a row. The first one to do so wins.

Finding this game in Asia can be a bit tough. Because of this, I’d recommend buying a travel edition on Amazon, and then packing it with you for your trip.

You’ll love Connect Four. It’s easy to play, and a perfect choice for any board game date.

3. The Jungle Game

Here’s another interesting game that’s popular in Asia but almost unheard of in the West. The Jungle Game is similar to Stratego, but played with cute animal pieces.

Rules re simple (there’s a video below), and everyone in Vietnam is familiar with this title.

(How To Play The Jungle Game)

You and your date will like this game a lot since it’s easy and relaxing. Plus the cute animal characters give you plenty to talk about, like if either of you have any pets or like going to the zoo.

Closing Thoughts

(Playing The Jungle Game With Friends)

Board game dates are a great way to bond with a girl. They give both of you an activity to do together, and it makes it easier to squash any first date nervousness you might have.

When you’re ready to meet up with a Vietnamese cutie, give this date idea a go.

Board game dates are fun, easy to try, and a good way to help you and your girl something to connect over.

P.S. Looking for more fun date ideas? Why not try this one?

Exclusive: Hoi An Travel Report

September 24, 2016 By Rob

Hoi An is an ancient Vietnamese city built over 2,000 years ago.

Originally a shipping port used to trade with China, Hoi An eventually evolved. Today the city is a well-known tourist destination.

The area also has a small town charm. And is much more relaxed than Vietnam’s larger cities.

In this travel report you’ll learn about the city’s cost of living, daily life, and local dating scene. I’ll also tell you about the town’s two biggest industries, one of which is sure to interest anyone who loves dressing well.

Anyway, let’s dig in.

Cost Of Living In Hoi An

(This Is A Quiet Town)

If I had to describe the cost of living in Hoi An with only three words, I’d say “cheap, cheap, cheap.” You can live in this city for mere peanuts.

How low is the cost of living?

You can rent a massive villa (with a swimming pool, maids, and gardeners) for only $580 a month. That’d cost you thousands of dollars back home.

(Hoi An House Is A Great Service For Long-Term Rentals)

Daily items are just as cheap. Lunch costs a dollar, a coffee runs you $0.80, and a beer is about $0.75. If you’re looking to get the most bang for your buck, head on up to Hoi An and settle in for a while.

It’s a cheap town to live in, making it great for any man on a budget.

Hoi An Daily Life

(Thousands Of Lanterns Decorate The City)

Hoi An has two major industries: making paper lanterns, and tailoring custom suits.

If you want top-notch custom clothes at a bargain price, you need to come here. A friend and I each bought six suits and the total bill was under $1,000.

For getting quality duds, this is best place in Southeast Asia.

That said, Hoi An is a small town and much quieter than Ho Chi Minh. There’s not a lot of nightlife, and the people are fairly conservative. If you’re looking for fast-paced action, this isn’t the spot for you.

However, if you’re a man who likes to relax and take things slow, you’ll love Hoi An. This is a fantastic place for guys who want to enjoy the simple life.

Come check out Hoi An when you’re in Vietnam. You can get some cool clothes, relax downtown, and unwind from the hustle and bustle of Ho Chi Minh City.

Where To Meet Women In Hoi An

(Online Dating Is The Way To Go)

Hoi An is a quiet town. Because of this, there’s not a lot of nightlife. If you’re looking for bars and nightclubs, you’d be better off heading south to Ho Chi Minh City.

That said, it is still possible to meet Vietnamese girls here.

Thanks to online dating site VietnamCupid, you can message and connect with plenty of local cuties. Currently, VietnamCupid has more than 200 female users in the town of Hoi An. That gives you a lot of opportunity for scoring dates.

After you meet a girl online, invite her out for coffee or a nice walk around the city center. Both are great ways for the two of you to bond.

Hoi An Travel Report: Closing Thoughts

(Hoi An’s Ancient Bridge – A Major Tourist Attraction)

Hoi An is a great city for buying custom clothes and exploring historic sites. It’s inexpensive, the women are hot, and there are plenty of cafes and coffee shops to relax in.

While not as active as Ho Chi Minh City, Hoi An is still a fun place to visit. If you’re looking for a quiet place, or interested in buying new suits, check this place out. It’s laid back atmosphere is a welcome break from Vietnam’s more hectic cities.

When you’re in Vietnam, I’d recommend taking a trip here.

Packing Guide For Vietnam

September 12, 2016 By Rob

So, you want to visit Vietnam?

That’s great, but there are a few things you’ll want to pack for your trip. Having these items with you can mean the difference between an incredible vacation and one that’s merely okay.

To maximize your adventure, I’ve created the ultimate packing guide for Vietnam.

Let’s dig in.

Clothes

(Beachfront In Da Nang)

Many people compare Vietnam’s climate to California’s. Both regions are incredibly varied, with sunny beachfront resorts, cool mountain ranges, and sweltering cities.

Because of this, it’s important to pack a diverse wardrobe that can keep you comfortable no matter what region you’re in.

Here’s what I’d bring:

7 T-Shirts
3 Pairs Of Jeans
1 Sweatshirt – If you go to Dalat it gets cold.
2 Button-Down Shirts – For fancy restaurants or clubbing.
4 Pairs Of Shorts
9 Pairs Of Boxers
10 Pairs Of Socks
Workout Clothes
One Travel Towel – These are lightweight and take up very little space.
Bathing Suit – For when you hit the beach.
Flip-Flops Or Sandals
Gym Shoes
Pair Of Dress Shoes – For clubs and nice restaurants.

Luggage

(I Trust Samsonite To Carry All My Things)

Your bags can make or break a trip. Luggage plays a vital role in your ease of travel. The right backpack or baggage will enhance your adventure. While the wrong gear may slow you down and become frustrating.

This is the luggage I use, and I’ve never had a problem with it:

Samsonite Silhouette Sphere 2 – This is my main travel bag, and it’s great for holding all your clothes, electronics, and books.
Backpack – Good for carrying bottles of water, snacks, or a change of clothes. I use the Everest Double Main Compartment.
Ziploc Bags – Put your electronics inside these airtight bags when your traveling. There’s no telling when a freak rain storm, flood, or spill could threaten to cause water damage.
Neck Pouch – These look dorky, but they’re great for bringing your travel documents with you. I use mine whenever I’m going to or from the airport.

Security

(Vietnamese Streets Can Get Crowded, Stay Safe!)

Vietnam is a safe country. However, you can never be too careful. There are scammers and thieves lurking about, making it important to protect yourself.

These tools will keep you safe:

Luggage Lock – Good for securing your bags while you’re traveling by bus or taking a local flight.
Banking Website – I make sure to check my bank balance daily, just in case there’s been an unauthorized transaction.
VPN Service – A “Virtual Private Network” will keep your personal information secure when you use public or hotel WiFi. Hotspot Shield is my VPN of choice.

Health

(Xylitol Gum And Health Food Are Popular Here)

There’s nothing worse than getting sick on vacation. Because of this, I recommend bring the following health and hygiene products. These can keep you safe and prevent any unwanted illnesses:

Toothbrush And Toothpaste
Mouthwash
Dental Picks – Way better than traditional flossing. DenTek is the best brand.
Travel Soap Or Bodywash
Deodorant
Talcum Powder
Small First-Aide Kit – No telling when you’ll get hurt. Better safe than sorry.
Sunscreen – Vietnam is hot! Be sure to protect your skin from getting burnt.
Advil Or Aspirin
Condoms – America has better brands and more variety. Buy before you leave for vacation.

Entertainment

(Duolingo Is An Amazing Tool)

Vietnamese culture is a lot different from anything you’ll find back in the West. As a result, you may experience some “culture shock” when it comes to local entertainment.

Vietnamese comedy relies heavily on slapstick humor (think The Three Stooges), and their music is incredibly sappy. If you want to enjoy some Western style fun, pack the following:

Amazon Prime – You can watch movies for free with your membership.
Duolingo – This is a free language learning tool. I use it to practice my Vietnamese daily.
Deck Of Cards Or Travel-Size Board Game – Fun For Playing With Locals Or Girls You Date.
VietnamCupid Membership – The best way to meet local cuties.

Electronics

(Freelance Writing From My Rooftop Office)

Contrary to popular belief, electronics are more expensive in Asia than they are in the USA. Vietnam has import taxes that raise the prices of laptops, iPhones, and speaker systems. Save some money by planning ahead and bringing your electronics with you.

Here’s what I suggest:

Laptop – Bring your laptop or iPad with you. There’s no telling when you might have to answer some emails or edit travel photos.
Universal Travel Adapter – Great for charging your phone, laptop, etc…
Unlocked Smartphone – Crucial for texting and talking when you’re in Vietnam.
UE MINI BOOM Bluetooth Speakers – These are the perfect lightweight speakers for listening to music or practicing your Vietnamese.
Earbuds Or Headphones – A must bring if you want to listen to music in public. I use Sennheiser CX 300 earbuds.
Kindle Classic Touchscreen – Books take up space, Kindles don’t. Excellent for catching up on your reading without having to lug a paperback everywhere.

Final Thoughts

(Downtown Ho Chi Minh City)

Follow this guide and you’ll be all set for your trip.

Additionally, I’d suggest that you check to see if your flight has any weight restrictions on baggage. If they do, make sure that all your gear in below the limit. You can do this by putting your bag on a scale before you leave home for the airport.

This simple trick ensures that there won’t be any hassles once you start boarding your flight.

Good luck, and enjoy your travels!

P.S. Curious about what living in Vietnam is actually like? Check out this article.

The Home Dinner Date Guide

August 22, 2016 By Rob

Vietnamese women are sexually conservative. Because of this, it can be hard to bring them back to your place without a well thought out reason.

Asking a girl to come by and “chill” or “watch a movie” won’t always work. You’ll need to win her over with something a little more enticing. That’s where the home dinner date comes in.

Inviting a girl to come over and eat a home-cooked meal at your apartment is a classy alternative to “Netflix and chill.” As a result most Vietnamese women will take you up on your dinner date offer, eager to come over and spend the evening at your place.

Which Girls Will A Home Dinner Date Work On?

(Ramen Noodles With Some Beef And Vegetables)

As effective as this date is, there are certain guidelines for using it. Vietnam is a conservative country. Inviting girls over too early in your relationship can backfire, making them wary of your advances. Likewise, cooking for girls who aren’t all that into you wastes your time.

To make your home dinner date effective, here are seven factors to consider when planning your date:

1. You’ve Already Went On Two Or More Dates

While inviting girls directly to your place works well in some countries (like the United States), it can hinder you in Vietnam. Many Vietnamese women are old-school and there are plenty of good girls who are saving themselves for marriage.

Trying to bring a girl back to your place on the first date usually won’t work.

As a result, it’s a good idea to stash your home dinner date for later. Bring it up after you’ve already hung out twice, this way the girl will be more receptive and willing to take you up on your offer.

2. You’ve Already Kissed Or Made-Out

If a Vietnamese girl has makes out with you, she likes you. Use this as the green-light for your home dinner date.

A woman who’s comfortable making out with you will be more open to spending the evening at your apartment. There’s also a good chance that she’s willing to sleep with you.

3. You Know How To Cook Something

You don’t have to be a master chef to make this date work. But, you do need some competence in the kitchen.

Knowing how to make something simple (spaghetti is my go-to dish) is fine. You don’t have to get too fancy. It’s better to make a simple meal that tastes great, than to get in over your head with some “gourmet” dish.

If you’re struggling to find easy but tasty recipes, check out Mark Bittman’s How to Cook Everything. It’s full of great meal ideas.

4. Your Date Can Stay Out Late Or Spend The Night

There’s nothing worse than cooking a big meal, eating dinner together, and then having the girl tell you she has to leave because of school or work the next morning.

Make sure that your date’s schedule is clear enough that she can stay over if she wants to.

If the girl doesn’t have anything going on the next morning, invite her over. If not, postpone the date. This way your night isn’t rushed, and the girl your with doesn’t have to go home at 10:30 so she can be ready for work the following morning.

Some simple planning can save you from getting cockblocked by your date’s prior engagements.

5. Your Date Wants To Have Sex With You

Although most Vietnamese women are shy and conservative, there are plenty of girls who’ll let you know when they’re horny.

Oftentimes, these women are very straightforward. They’ll let you know that they want to hang out at your place, or they’ll make hints that you should invite them over.

In these cases, you’re almost guaranteed to get laid. When this happens, it’s a good idea to have the girl over for dinner. Not only will the two of you going to do it, but you can eat leftovers as a post-sex snack.

Win-win.

Final Thoughts

(Japanese “Funny Face” Hot Dog Cutter)

The home dinner date is a powerful move that makes it easy to bring girls back to your place. Women who are into you will be happy to come over. And your apartment gives the two of you a nice private setting that’s perfect for sex.

If you’ve been looking for a way to take girls home (and “Netflix and chill” isn’t working), use this sophisticated alternative instead.

P.S. Want to get more dates? Check out my VietnamCupid review.