Vietnamese women are tough to communicate with when you first meet them. And this has nothing to do with language barriers.
The country has a conservative culture, and many girls are shy when meeting new people. As a result, it’s tough to get a read on them. Due to this reserved nature, you’ll never know if they’re having a great time with you, or want to leave immediately.
This was something I struggled with for a long-time, until I discovered a simple solution: study the girl’s body language.
As a semi-professional poker player, I got the idea from reading Caro’s Book of Poker Tells. This is an excellent guide to learning about body language and discovering new ways to “read” people.
When you’re serious about mastering the art of deciphering a woman’s body language, read this book. But, in the meantime, I have a few simple tips that can help on your next date.
Let’s take a look.
Three Easy To Read Body Language Tells
As I’ve already mentioned, Vietnamese girls are more conservative than Western women. As a result, they won’t do anything too flirtatious when you first meet them. However, they will give off some subtle signs showing they like you.
Here are three common “tells.”
Women touch themselves when they think you’re hot. And no, we’re not talking about masturbation here.
When you’re deep into a conversation with them, women will often start embarrassing their own necks, writs, or legs. They’ll rub the skin a little, subconsciously signaling that they want you to touch them. If a girl starts to rub her wrists or neck, give her some physical contact.
Grab her hand and hold it, or brush her hair behind her ear. Simple gestures like this get the two of you touching, and help prime the girl for more physical contact later, be it sex or kissing.
2. Crossed Legs
If a girl crosses here legs or arms, it’s a sign that she’s getting defensive. Some Vietnamese chicks, especially the more conservative ones, get nervous easily. And, as a result, they’re quick to go on the defensive.
If you catch your date folding her arms or crossing her legs, you’ve probably startled her in some way. Ease up and change the conversation to something more relaxed. Additionally, if you’re touching the girl once she clams up, pull back and keep your hands to yourself for a little while.
3. Playing With Hair
There are all kinds of theories about this “tell” (some are pretty kooky), but I’ll explain it as best I can.
Women play with their hair when they like you. It’s an instinctive way for them to signal that they want sex. If you’re date starts flicking her hair or twirling it around her fingers, she wants to get laid.
Whenever you see happening, try to get more physical as soon as possible.
The tips provided above will help you out on your next date. They’ll let you read your girl’s body language, and know exactly what she’s thinking. It’s like being psychic.
And when you want to get deeper into the art of understanding body language, grab a copy of Caro’s Book of Poker Tells. The book gives you all kinds of advanced information, making it incredibly easy to decode what your date is thinking.